a big part of being trans online is not relating to 90% of relatable trans posts & that's ok
i was never able to get into fallout new vegas and every time someone online talks about it as a Trans Experience® it gives me hives
we aren't a "catgirl, blahaj, fallout new vegas" trans girl, we're a "ghidra, bus pirate, and oscilloscope" trans girl
this has been going on for as long as there have been trans people on the internet
i remember the in jokes, as they were called back 20 years ago, and they were always the most "no one outside of this community has ever heard of this" nonsense
the problem (like always) is that the internet has simultaneously gotten so much larger and so much more concentrated but i swear to you there are still pockets out there who have never heard of a new vegas but think that being trans means something like being the lights director of a small local theater group because it sure is weird that the last 3 all ended up coming out