So! I'm actually now the leader of a casual FC that has had some membership dropoffs just from people getting busy with school / being unable to afford subs, but...

We're very queer and friendly! We have a medium house in Empyreum! We have constant (mostly!) buffs, historically and are trying to still do weekly events, we've done a lot of getting people mounts, we have a bunch of deep dungeon nerds, a functioning workshop, several submarines that we could absolutely direct around, buncha crafters who are willing to help gear anyone, a few raiders, etc! :)

If anyone's curious I'd be happy to say more, chat in game (Aune Elani), or whatever!