if you don't know me on discord, you do not know me
if you're not on my close friends discord, you absolutely are not my close friend
i make connections pretty fucking strongly, and if you're not included in that, you're probably not actually that connected, we don't get on famously we're cohost mutuals (at best)
despite how open i might seem here, i very much do not bare my entire soul to a social media feed. there's a lot you wouldn't know unless we've been in private, unless i've actually talked about my kinks and feeling predatory for having them (internalized transmisogyny woo), unless you know my other headmates that aren't so forwards-facing
so please, do not get any parasocial impressions. try not to FP me, i will not reciprocate, things have gone awfully for people who have in past.
and at the very least, don't pretend we're buddy-buddy. we're not.

