fifteen months on, i still can't get over that in my first 100% consensual sexual interaction my partner couldn't find my clit
...
i mean i know it's not as big as it used to be, but this is hardly where's waldo
"in my defense," they just now said, "i was suffering from confirmation bias." π
(they knew full well i was trans, but had some jumbled ideas about what that meant in my case; had somehow concluded in spite of everything that i was one of those hi-femme afab she/they enbies. π΅βπ«)
"and you were so wet," they add. ππ«