The urge to express the horniness held about things people clearly want you to be horny about
vs
The mortifying ordeal of not wanting to fuck it up and make them uncomfortable in some way
The endless struggle.
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I guess you'll have to do it on a person by person basis. If you were horny with me, I'd deem that a win but it really depends who you're talking to!
Noted! :3 And yeah, I've been going person by person; it's not all that common overall, but the desire to engage w/o expectation or discomfort is big.
Well, at the very least I think it's a good thing that you care about other's boundaries enough to want to avoid making them uncomfortable. 🙂
I usually also prefer to err on the side of caution with things like that(mainly irl). Like if it's unclear someone's flirting with me I'll restrict myself to smirking rather than pushing it. It kind of feels bad when I see some dudes who just know how to push people's buttons and I'm holding back, but I'd rather it be like this then make someone who isn't interested uncomfortable. Consent takes priority over gratification imo.
If you mean me.. well, that would be a win in my book!
Maaaaybe~ It's an ongoing concern I have whenever I see resonant horny, but, y'know, mebbe. :3