these things are allowed past an event horizon by the way. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kerr_metric
So your spaghetti matter can get rotated to past and future positions along space.
What if this is like the spaghetti ends up flung very far away, before, instantaneously, or after its initial event horizon descent relative to an outside observer? That's weird as shit. Does time in that accelerated reference frame get dilated in the reverse direction as well? Does the length get contracted so that nothing really “overlaps” even under the most crushing gravitational conditions (Pauli exclusion? Maybe?)