This kinda attitude has (thankfully?) only recently started to become noticeable in some of the communities I inhabit.
It's kinda wild seeing young LGBTQIA+ people actually arguing that 'queer' is automatically a slur because some people use it pejoratively; or that kink should be banned from pride, supposedly because exposing minors to anything even adjacent to human sexuality is tantamount child abuse.
They're espousing exactly the same arguments that folks opposed to LGBTQIA+ rights were making not even 15 years ago and seemingly refuse to believe it when elder queers tell them so.
I'm rather hoping those folks gain some perspective as they grow up, but we can only hope.
