honestly as someone who Definitely Clearly Does Feel romantic attraction and very dearly and unabashedly romantically loves my partners, I feel like it's way overhyped
sure it can be fun, in the same way riding a roller coaster can be fun. but riding a roller coaster is in no way required to experience fun and meaning in life, and also sometimes riding a roller coaster makes you get sick and throw up, or makes your glasses fly off your face
and then sometimes you strap in and realize too late that the ride was built by a deranged RollerCoaster Tycoon player
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