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the topic of glamourbombing has kind of reminded me of my deep and feral longing for hanfu. I love it, I yearn for it, and I have every right to wear it, because this is the traditional dress of our ethnicity.

but I am afraid to, because it's always, always, always been our modus operandi to survive by being invisible, overlooked, underestimated IRL. especially in the wake of COVID-sparked sinophobia. (and also. augh, the laundry. you can't just throw those things in the washing machine like a t-shirt!)

but the concept of glamourbombing is like. there is some unfortunate weirdness, I think, in comparing the wearing of one's traditional ethnic dress to magic and nonhumanity. but I feel like it occupies an adjacent niche - something that challenges and shakes "normality." something that reminds people that there's more to the world.

(but the laundry issue remains. :eggbug-pensive:)


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in reply to @bazelgeuse-apologist's post:

Fellow Chinese hanfu-liker here: sympathize with the wanting to wear but simultaneously wrestling with the motivations and connotations of wearing one in the US! Ages ago when that one white high-schooler went viral for wearing a qipao to prom, a friend wrote a pretty good essay on the various dynamics of wearing "ethnic" clothing, which I think about every so often. He talked about how in an ideal world, he'd be able to wear these clothes as casually and neutrally as they are meant to be worn, but instead he always has to weigh the gazes and perceptions of the white public. I've also occasionally thought about buying one to wear to a ren faire or something, but am conflicted about how much that would make me stand out, even if it would feel like an apt historical fashion choice. Would it draw the type of gaze that would ruin my day?

I also would be lying if I didn't say that part of the appeal of fancy hanfu is how fantastical they look - I'm not a historical c-drama watcher, but they do evoke xianxia/wuxia vibes for me, or the kind of mythic air of characters like chang'e or the weaver girl. The sense of glamourbomb is real, even if like. I don't know that I'd react to Elizabethan fashion with the same kind of "fantasy" air.

Contemporary outlets like newhanfu with their modern design line (https://store.newhanfu.com/modern-hanfu) have tempted me to go looking for something that aligns with modern fashion more - there was a hanfu jacket that I would've made very unwise financial decisions for. Unfortunately I don't know if they would come with the same level of care requirements - that would also be very possible. But browsing is certainly fun, at least.