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realizing that what I'm allergic to isn't current events, but the way they're so often spread around social media and big news outlets - either by sellout publications pretending all of this is fine and reasonable, or with a tremendous amount of despair and misanthropy

we readily hear about the horrible things happening, and by comparison we hear so little about the people who are fighting it. the love and support those people are getting, even from complete strangers. hell, even ways that we can help - tangible ways, not just endlessly reblogging the same posts around the same circle of people. and I get it, sometimes things are really just that bad and there's nothing good you can say, but the majority of it just feels like a circus that's engineered to make us lose hope and give in to cynicism and make it easier for the assholes in power to get their way. and I am just Not here for that.

something I want to do is to read and post more about current events, but on my own terms: centering the people who are doing something about these things and the ways that we ourselves can do something. all still tagged, of course, because it's still heavy stuff. but I hope that maybe even in the heaviness, we can remember that people are still fighting the good fight.


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in reply to @bazelgeuse-apologist's post:

SERIOUSLY. I love the current events newsletter I read, and I chose it because reading it didn't feel like I was drowning my brain in despair.

My sanity is my most endangered resource. I gotta safeguard it and use it as effectively as possible, and nuking it with pointless despair is NOT a good expense. I hate that "doomscrolling" gets equated with "staying informed." THEY ARE NOT THE SAME. QUIT TRYING TO TRICK MY BRAIN INTO HURTING ITSELF.

!!! What's that newsletter? I would love to follow it as well!

And YEAH, I feel you, so much. It's a struggle for us to keep ourselves fed, much less stay employed, and a despair nuke can mean we spend days incapacitated and starving ourselves. It has has NEVER led to anything positive.

Meanwhile, reading about UK trans youth protesting the puberty blocker ban gave me the energy to get up, feed myself, talk to people, and read a few more things! That's magnitudes more than any shitty "we should blow up the UK" ""joke"" has ever done!

Letters From an American! https://heathercoxrichardson.substack.com/ It's by a professional historian, so she spends a lot of time explaining the history of current things, how we got here now from way back then, and I really appreciate that! Often, reading a newspaper, I would feel like I was missing half the context, and she supplies that context! And she can talk about difficult topics without that "drowning in despair" feeling, you know what I mean? It's possible to learn about really awful things without feeling like you're getting swirlied!

I was just talking with another friend about how sometimes I have to differentiate between something that's true and something that WORKS. Cynicism may or may not be true... but it definitely hasn't WORKED for me.