1000% this, I don't think I've seen it put this well before.
It's why the 2.7 update on FA was so dangerous. It implies anyone who fucks on-model is some kind of super child predator... and like... just no.
you are now the center of the discourse zone. it was nice knowing you 😔
Honestly my own post yesterday on the subject was from the source of "Oh people are using people like me as a bludgeon to justify not TW-ing this stuff, despite my trauma response to seeing it due to Past Trauma".
As someone who was an abused child, you're absolutely right, I'm also tired of being used as a bludgeon against other faggots like me. Ain't never hit the share button after reading a chost so fast.
this is 100% where I'm at on the subject. I have all the love in the world for other survivors and the pain we've been subjected to, but I'm real sick of people using my child abuse experience to justify being shitty to each other about adults engaging in kink
Y E P.
Like, I want this shit nowhere near me but also treating everyone who's into it like they're suddenly destined to be an actual sex offender is wild to me.