rather than simply relating their experiences and thoughts on them.
idk, i'm also new here, but reading "hey, so, i'm experiencing a thing in this particular way, and that makes me feel ways" seems to hit me vastly different than "queer people experience thing and it works like this and it makes us feel this exact thing"
and one of those also, despite sounding more authoritative, actually sounds like it's something far more alienating (and it feeling more alienated, itself) to me.
