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@bethposting

and i feel like maybe a lot of people just do that and then attribute it to whichever one of the following applies to them:

  • anxiety
  • adhd
  • autism

bethposting
@bethposting

oh you got straight A's? your parents will be so proud


gibbles
@gibbles

I think everyone's a little right in this case, it's a stim and everyone stims to one degree or another, I'm sure there are a decent number of neurotypical people who shake their leg like that as well but it's probably a lot more noticeable in people who do it often because they have neurotypes that stim more often in general, such as autism and adhd and anxiety. So it's a part of those things but not exclusive to it


bethposting
@bethposting

hmm i do love to spin a wheel (i uh may have some spinny fidget things


bethposting
@bethposting

yeah i think this one is from the company that originally popularized the cube form of fidget toy (where each side has a different type of wheel or ball or switch or groove) and i like it a lot. i got it for my work but then the guy who sat next to me said it was too loud so i just took it home lol https://zurutoys.com/brands/fidget


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in reply to @bethposting's post:

possibly! when i'm doing it i believe i notice it acting as a stim - filling a need for stimulation of some sort. so i think i'd probably attribute that to one of the above? as in, an anxious need for stimulation as distraction from thought, or adhd need for stimulation for increased activity to make brain work, or autism need for stimulation for emotional regulation via repeated physical movement.

but also i just described all stims and i think most people do have one or more stims they use in general for whatever they end up needing it for so i don't think i disagree with you here.

i do this although i do not think i have adhd or autism (maybe i have anxiety? but i havent talked to a doctor or like Formally Tried To Diagnose myself with any of those three so idk, i got no clue). i think i do it as a way to get excess energy out? maybe its stimming? it feels similar to how i like having music on when i do work, and i often dont bounce my leg while doing something like video games, or sometimes very in depth programming.