i think everyone i've ever seen say "just make a native app" has been a windows user, i.e. someone who can safely take for granted that a native app would actually target their platform
how would your opinions on electron change if your options were "electron thing" and "thing that probably only runs on linux"?
imagine a world of all native apps. oops, you can't use your bank with this new phone! or this new laptop! linux users utterly disenfranchised. heck, even macs would be in a wildly different position right now.
chromium has its problems, and i hate google as much as the next person on cohost, but electron is solving a very real engineering problem right now. yes, i would prefer to see desktop operating systems invest in progressive web apps so we can phase at electron. but until then, this is what we get. the incentives for developing a native app are basically nonexistent for most companies. nerds can cry about it, but only nerds know enough to really care what UI system underlies the apps they're using.
my opinion is that electron sucks but its basically the best easy thing we have rn besides websites (Which dont work for a lot of things) so we might as well use it while working on something next thats better