I did like two months of voice training, lost interest in it, and ended up with an androgynous voice that I can force to be femme if I want it to be. I kinda love it, especially since I hated the flat bass-y voice I had before I did the bare minimum to get to something comfortable here.
See: me when my girlfriend starts going off on Some Weird Tangent
okay but what are conversations meant to consist of if not weird tangents?
might be worth mentioning that like 95% of my friends are gay trans nerds with autism, ADHD, or both