Something I find really tedious is how many people fail to appreciate the role that parents' sense of ownership over their children plays in transphobia. Or they'll think of it as only applying to "trans children" in a way that privileges the parents' perceptions of whether their child is "trans" or not.
i have a friend who recently came out to their parents, who are generally fine in theory with trans people, but who are acting like their child is getting sentenced to life in prison. fixated entirely on possible negative side effects of hormones and on the idea they won't get to have grandchildren.
that latter part seems to be a really big thing for a lot of asian families, in my experience. there's a real concern over the "family line" continuing and a sort of implied ownership of "the family" over your reproductive choices, even for more minor things. i remember my korean grandpa was really mad at my uncle (his only son) for only having one kid, a girl, because the "family name wouldn't get passed on" (the family name is Kim lmao i promise that surname will be fine)