the fine line to be trodden between unambiguously rejecting normalcy-based politics and using claims about what is "normal" as a way of making aberrancy more familiar
it is, i think, nongenerative to say things like "oh im normal now" after having a good nap, or "having such and such a kink is totally normal". but it also helps me get to work on time so who can say whether it's bad or not
