I broke up with my partner of 12 years and even though it was amicable and the right call for both of us, I can't see past the shock and the sudden realization I am a single transwoman in her 40s. Yes, I'm poly and there is someone else in my life but it's very early and studded with unknowns and they — correctly — have their own priorities, lovers. Where do I fit in? Can I?
12 years. Our relationship was old enough to call me a slur online
