Siërra R., "Botfly Mother "Inhaling The Sodium Vapors""

i am in something like 40 servers

i regularly talk in three of them: mine, a small friend group, and ss13

most of them are muted, put in a shit folder because, well, i had to join them once, leaving is effort, rejoining is more effort

oh thank god im not alone offers a hug in solidarity... well, there is only one server about which i feel guilty. some peeps on twt announced it, i joined, and never talk much due to what you describe, decay

the others are themed servers i was interested at the time... like one in esperanto, another for japanese learners etcpp. but i never look in any of those... now adays i only ever open discord when wifey sends me a new page of her comic to spellcheck and admire and such... it became a bit much on my matrix homeserver storage wise, so yeah.. >_>

at the time of joining i always think: oh neat! so many people sharing my interest/vibe. but when it comes to interacting with discord in any way, i always feel like im intruding on someone elses space... and in too many rooms at once and all. i really wish there was something more like irc.... except less crap somehow. ok irc isnt crap. but it's not gold either, nowadays. it's like an old but well maintained vw käfer, still in working order but had already seen its best days long ago

i was in bed and misread it, please disregard