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hi ima trans kittygirlthing, ask me if you wanna know anything about me and i'll answer if im comfy with sharing :3

i have a lovely girlfriend, she's @aluria-sevhex
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VixieMoondew
@VixieMoondew

when someone says "uh hey the fetishization of bodies like ours makes us deeply uncomfortable and is often straight-up triggering, so please please please be mindful of what you post in this space because while some stuff is uplifting, a lot of fat kink art does unfortunately rely on demeaning stereotypes and cruel language with an eggplant emoji attached" and some folks' response is "oh so you HATE fat people!?!? you don't think fat people can be SEXY???" i always have to wonder whether there's a second, secret language that shares all the same words but with wildly different meanings

VixieMoondew
@VixieMoondew

like. i was skinny all my life and now am at most chubby, but my wife is fat. damn near all of her characters are fat. most of my friends are fat. Vixie is at least chubby; she's got stretch marks and cellulite and a soft, round belly. the MFBC all has fat characters, from musclegut Maddy to broad and chubby Mabel and soft little Grace.

but there's a distinction between "oh god your big bod is hot af" and peddling fatphobic tropes with a thick sheen of cum over it, y'know??

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Fru-Fru-Brigade
@Fru-Fru-Brigade

Literally why our original originally created Milly, because she was uncomfortable with that whole aspect of fatfur stuff. A health-at-any-size, health-is-not-worth athlete raccoon-mouse who was fat because of her biology instead of "big hungry fatty who eats a lot" felt like something that needed to exist.

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VixieMoondew
@VixieMoondew

godddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

like. bruh. there are DMs. go to DMs. make another server. post your character sucking a paci or fucking their sister or shitting their pants there. it's fine. no one's gonna torch and/or pitchfork you.

people act like setting boundaries within a space is passing judgment on what is and isn't okay in society when really at its heart it's just "we don't wanna see that here"

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VeraLycaon
@VeraLycaon

I mean, knowing what this is about more specifically it's... "no fetishizing fatphobia" is one thing, but the specific lines drawn here feel like they go well beyond just that. I'm speaking as someone who's been fat her entire life here and bitched at about it enough to have been talked into an eating disorder at one point, when I say that banning art of characters that are Too Fat for comfort and depictions of even the vaguest hint of inconvenience associated with it just makes a space feel stifling and unwelcoming - it not being the place for that is one thing, but then having a channel where it would go anyway sends mixed messages to say the least.

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caela-argent
@caela-argent

Not going to take a side here, but I do know a few people active in that space who feel as though the recent update is veering into the territory of mod overreach. I'm not naming names, but I have heard talk and dissension over whether the recent decision actually helps anyone.

Personally I feel that it's not my place to question the decisions of the mod team; they've made their stance relatively clear. However, these concerns have cropped up in discussions I'm a part of, and I feel as though I wouldn't be doing my job as a member of the community if I didn't bring them to attention.

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Jonieroo
@Jonieroo

Speaking as a skinny woman who does enjoy wg kink and stuff like that? Yes, this. Like, I like WG kink sure but I'm always more interested in stuff like... the people behind it. Theres always that difference between, "Oh I like this character/person etc that is fat because I just like fat bodies and the people behind them" and embracing a stereotype that's just constant eating, more eating and fetishizing something that people get shit on a lot irl and can feel uncomfortable around. (not sure if I worded this the best)

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