after two? years on cohost it still feels amazing to have this experience
- post something that sucks
- wonder if everyone hated it
- realize there is no follower count i can look at
- stop caring if anyone hated it, instantly
I truly believe the lack of numbers in most places on cohost is Healing™️, I’m at the point where I wish I could obliterate numbers off every other website because it influences so much of how you view people it’s insane.
There are people behind profiles and numbers tend to dehumanize them in very pernicious ways, I feel.
Related: if you see anybody telling you X or Y is “a big account” on cohost you can safely ignore their opinion because unless they’re staff they have literally no way of knowing that lol
yeah it's hard for me to get out of my head lol, i see accounts i follow and go like "ahh but these people are larger than me, i am but an ant to them" even when they are my mutuals lmao :P