something i think about sometimes that's funny is how many fetishes and ideals of physical attractiveness are based in and around fatness without ever acknowledging it. people want a thicc girl, one with the mom bod, the wobble wagon, the mommy milkers - but not if she's actually fat, of course.
and there's sort of an exaggeration of this effect when it comes to the fetish scene, right. hyper and hourglass expansion in which subjects are ballooning up, sometimes into the quadruple digits, but the fat can only accumulate in the designated Acceptable Zones - tits, ass, maybe hips and thighs if we're feeling particularly daring. perhaps they'll include a sliver of belly fat, just for construction, since the anatomy fully breaks down otherwise. its utilitarian, and always obscured by the real stars of the show.
its not a problem so much to have paraphilias for specific parts, that's just part of the human condition babey. but i do think its worth examining how much of sexuality, broadly, is based in the attraction to fatness while also being very vehemently in denial about it