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in reply to @julez's post:

me too, but then another trans person gave me the "objectification" line and i kinda got discouraged from expressing that part of myself for years. it seems like you understand reasons for why someone would use it (indifference to gender is very valid, and a lot of people use it/its as a affirmation of non-participation).

hi, i made this post bc this take is kinda the conventional attitude to it/its pronouns [gestures around to society at large] and i wanted to bring the opposite energy of love and affirmation to ppl who vibe with it/its pronouns, and for this reason this comment isn’t super appreciated on this post. i hope you understand where i’m coming from.