cass

assigned catgirl at birth

white, early twenties, disabled, lesbian, plural. a cat that just so happens to be a person. sister of @yrgirlkv. makes things, sometimes.


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I've had really bad voice dysphoria, and still do at times but I've gotten a lot better at managing it, and one thing that was a big turning point about how I felt about my voice was when I played an rpg with a friend I'd only talked to on twitter before. After the first session, she said my voice was lovely, and absolutely sounded like a transfem voice.

I was surprised because I hadn't done any kind of voice training, or consciously modulated my voice, and at the time was mostly worried about not sounding like a cis woman but she told me that doesn't matter, the way I talked sounded distinctly like a trans woman, which is beautiful. And that's when I realized that sounding like a trans woman (which I do, definitionally) is way cooler and more fun than trying to sound like a cis woman.