i forgot to post everything but sam and some of their friends are technically still facebook friends with my mom and they have a gc with her and their other (chill and actual) friends in it. sam offered to let me in just to see what mom would do. I was in there for a fucking DAY before mom left the gc 😭
for more context in what i'm abt to post: sam's friend, D, was replying to someone else in the chat abt how they had to take care of their elderly toxic mom. D said "we love toxic moms" and sam replied to that, doubling down. D KNOWS my mom personally and knows The Shit that had been happening.
my mom, without any further prompting and having not even said anything or being spoken to, left the gc.