i think everyone needs at least one hobby they feel competent at (for the reward of achieving results and of doing something fulfilling) and at least one hobby that they are absolutely dogshit at (to cultivate an attitude of learning and staying humble). ideally, you have like 4-10 that you are cycling through in the course of a single year
last two parties I went to the cat only came up when someone who already knew me asked about her or my tattoo was visible so I am crushing it
