pathological conflict aversion is an enforcement tool of white supremacist power — there is a hierarchy of who is "allowed" to inflict discomfort on "the other" and you need to stop participating in that.

Just a leopard from Seattle who sometimes makes games when she remembers to.
pathological conflict aversion is an enforcement tool of white supremacist power — there is a hierarchy of who is "allowed" to inflict discomfort on "the other" and you need to stop participating in that.
gods, conflict-avoidance-as-self-preservation instinct keeps me trying to avoid stirring shit to avoid destroying some position of Having that i feel like ive stumbled into but could just as easily stumble out of if i mess up slightly socially its aaassssssssssss
fully aware this reinforces norms through absence of fighting them but i dont know where the line is between opsec and just being a lil bitch about things lmfao
Can I just say thank you?
I've been more willing to get up in critters' faces for... a few reasons, but seeing others willing to openly confront is definitely one of them.