maybe this is a controversial take but i dont actually think you can have a happy or content life if you are constantly thinking about or fighting with or even just wishing doom on your oppressors. cuz that just means you're spending your limited amounts of mental and emotional energy on people who hate you. that means they're winning twice. that means they have power over you twice. you just gotta focus on your own life and the people you love most of all. i know there's not a lot of fanfare in it but really the only way to Win, when it comes to shitty people, is to live a content life, pursuing your own goals, with absolutely no connection to them whatsoever
