☀️ we went out on a walk, and i somewhat accidentally managed to figure out a rough idea for what i want for a physical voice too!
not only is that a good thing, but it involved using a bit of chest resonance (if we use any terms wrong please excuse us, we have spent way more time doing voice training in norwegian at this point and the terms might differ a little), something that has very much been a dysphoria point for us. well, not that time! maybe i just got lucky or me using it less as the only tone and more as one of a couple elements made the dysphoric parts less relevant, but aaaaa! i could talk and feel it in my chest and we didn't end up a big goop pile of dysphoria! i'm taking that as a win, along with several of the others who're also interested in playing around with getting our voice down there, and i think i can say voice training has gone from "oh yeah this feels good and we should be doing more of it" to "holy fuck this is awesome and gender and we should be prioritizing this"
