🦨 (This is just as much everyone else being loud about this but I got to the keyboard first :3)
Okay, we just heard some good ideas from our mom about some stuff being planned at home, and it makes a lot of things we were worrying about line up much better? To the point where we still need some stuff like job searching to go our way, but it means an easier choice for us in the next months and an alright living option if needed in the next years. Now we have a solution to one of the dilemmas we've been struggling with, and it is at least a bit of comfort.