on one paw, we're kinda terrified of coming out to our family about being plural for... well, the obvious reasons (amplified by it looking more and more like we'll be economically/housing dependent on the family in question for a bit)
on the other paw, the idea of doing jokes like "nah, it's just us here. we're all alone," over the phone with someone just hit us and the power of the bit is joining in with the yearning for just being open about it aaaa