Where fandom is overwhelmingly people playing with dolls, I have decided to simply mute anyone outrage-posting about how people are 'playing with the dolls wrong.'
I promise you the Ao3 statistics of your favorite media will not hurt you. Yes, even if the majority of fans aren't interested in the 'right things.'
"But people liking X thing instead of Y thing is harmful—" it isn't
"People online exploring characters in a way I dislike is oppressing people like me—" it isn't
"We need to fix it—" we don't! Even if they're so, so wrong, we don't
