i know that "mechs as bodies" is very much a thing, and a lot of media that does this (armored core, hwbm, etc) turns it all the way up to hyperreality with the mechs being directly wired into the pilot's body, but something interesting is that this isn't even necessary. anyone who's driven the same car often enough knows that eventually, your proprioception kind of extends to the car as well, just through the medium of your control of the wheel and your feet on the floor. when i'm parallel parking, i'm going much less from visual cues or from procedural memory than from the fact that i can "feel" where the back wheels of the car are, almost like they were connected to me. it's an illusion, but a strong and reliable one, like in those studies where they get a participant to identify an artificial hand as their own hand. the boundary of what your brain considers to be a part of your body is actually highly permeable