my biggest question to people online is "why do you think i need to know that" with regard to people posting intense stuff i tried to carefully leave out of the OP, as if [redacted] [redacted] [redacted] of [redacted] [redacted] wasn't well known for [redacted] [redacted] [redacted] [redacted] [redacted].
u don't need to expose every poster to your pet trauma just for the sake of it, especially if it isn't even yours and you're just "raising consciousness".
i promise, if you absolutely have to show people, you can find a less violent way to present it in comments or replies or shares.
please stop inflicting things on people who read their notifications or have to look at the comment page to reply. please.