Straight sex, or the straight kind of gay sex, is like someone trying to teach me middle school mathematics. yes, sure, it's foundational but I'm going to need something that's moved past 1959 in terms of erogenous zones, thanks.
queer threesomes are four people in a full sized bed in a writhing pile and maybe there's penetration happening but no one involved can really notice over the din of every other nerve in their body