one thing i do think is important to remember with transmisogyny is that it is very much an oppression that can be applied laterally. even someone who's TMA can very much wield transmisogyny as a weapon against other transfems by appealing to being "one of the good ones".
this strategy, of course, doesn't work forever. the harassment against me The Abuser's Guide to Transmisogyny is partially based on was mostly enacted by other transfems, though with one TME system in the pack. but as soon as the campaign flopped and everyone involved was rightly driven out for trying to commit social murder, suddenly the TME system who had started the pedojacketing framed everything they did as simply being dragged along by the transfems in the room.
they can't do harm, they're just a poor little meow-meow, surely it was those convenient mean transfem scapegoats who made them do it!
transmisogyny can be wielded laterally, but all it does is get you thrown under the bus at the end of the day. transmisogynist mobs generally are going to eventually find an excuse to throw you away, no matter how perfect they think you are. they'll call you a pedophile rapist for some random kink, decide you're racist for something you said out of context, or even just decide their own violence they suddenly felt guilty for is clearly your fault.
being "one of the good ones" just gets you killed alone once you help clear out the rest of us.