responsibilities are cool when you take them on willingly, consentingly; because you care about them or for some other reason that they're important to you.
the type of responsibilities one takes on at a 9-5 job in the private sector do not meet these criteria.
not for me, at least.
what I mean is like. if anyone ever says "you really should take more of an interest in your job, you take on a lot of responsibility by being here" then they have it backwards. the very way life itself ought to be lived is inverted by this idea
