There seems to be a misconception that 'terf' and 'nazi' are matters of identity.

If you agree with the nazis that nationalism needs to be enforced along racial lines through military power, and that there are degenerate races that need to be removed to make room for good races to thrive, but you disagree on which races those are because you yourself are jewish or gay or sinti or roma or what have you.... Look I agree it's in poor taste to call you a nazi but it's sort of like insisting that it's "sparkling wine" because it's from California.

If you agree with the terfs that 'woman' and 'man' are categories which are meaningful of themselves, that women are biological victims and men are biological perpetrators, and that because of this we need to enforce strict boundaries between the genders, but you disagree on where to draw the boundaries because you yourself are trans.... Well I agree it's in poor taste to call you a terf but it's sort of like insisting on calling it "facial tissue" because it's Great Value brand.