hanging out in fully-online queer spaces always depresses me when the conversation turns to visions of the gender-expansive future. kids fantasizing about cis men who get vaginoplasty if they want or "ooh, what if a non-binary person could have a fully-functional penis and a vagina", and I have to be the one to say: my friends, the future is now, the time is here, you can and should argue that these things should be more accessible but estrogen femboys, pussy bears, phallo dykes, and design-your-own-genital-configuration NBs exist and you can read their blogs. subscribe to their onlyfans. say hi on social media, whatever. this is your community, this is who you need to support, find them, embrace them, and be free
my favorite colors backwards
- xe/xer, per/per, it/its, they/them
hi! my only other social media is tumblr so my gf says i'll fit in fine here. i'm in my 20s and live in the united states, if you want more info than that then you can read my posts cuz i'm not putting it here (put in some fucking effort to dox me lmao) <3
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in reply to @amagire's post:
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(it's not a "penis and a vagina" situation, but still, I think many would consider it a unique offering)
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I have to scream, of course, at how this trans invisibility is in no way accidental. we are routinely flagged as 'extreme'; afforded only the visibility of being the subjects of shock pieces. the WPATH gatekeeping specification first acknowledged the existence of non-binary people, and non-cis-normative transition, in 2022. harassment campaigns are steadily mounting in response to people with transition goals like mine steadily being pushed less and less firmly toward 'back-alley doctors' or attempted self-surgery - we're a ball in the game of getting legislation enacted to make trans peoples' lives miserable.
edit: actually, I'm gonna take this comment and make a rechost out of it