hello, apropos of something does anyone know of the indie Matrix/XMPP/etc. host that was talked about as a good solution for small social groups in the past? I am interested in putting my money where my mouth is wrt messenger services

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hello, apropos of something does anyone know of the indie Matrix/XMPP/etc. host that was talked about as a good solution for small social groups in the past? I am interested in putting my money where my mouth is wrt messenger services
Ditto this. I want a chat platform that doesn't suck shit and I'm prepared to at least put time and effort into trying new ones.