I realized there's a shit ton of problems with this mentality when I was a month into HRT and was asking some stuff online regarding dosage and a fucking kid online told me to not bother that much cause it was already too late.
I WAS FUCKING 19 YEARS OLD.
the idea that everything important happens in the 13-20 age range and everything else is just a holding pattern until you die. some people never lose this outlook, tbh






