Like, these people were so important to someone who is or was so important to you and now aren't part of your life so you sometime look at them and its like prying into what an ex is up to except it doesn't hurt as much. "Oh, looks like Kelly is dating a guy now, guess she did decide she was bi after all, good for her." "So Benni's last post was 3 months ago and it was just 'fuck this shit', hope they're okay." "Looks like Glenda made a pact with Agotholonil, The Crowmother of the Ur-Hive, and has now grown a third set of eyes under her boobs that can stare into the Gaps Between Truths but also get irritated by underwires, that's classic Glenda." "Hey, Sharon took up knitting!"