Namely, it must be something that:
- has a popular association with being difficult/challenging (which MAY be played up to some degree)
- despite the air of difficulty, it is still held in high regards by most people
- is extremely influential
- the jank is part of the appeal
- has some aspect that feels comprable to a poison swamp. Make of that what you will
Me: “okay here’s my controversial answer: 69”
My partner: “I get where you’re coming from, but I think 69ing is the Dark Souls II of sex”
Hear me out:
In addition to the above, it’s controversial in the community because some swear it’s the best thing ever while others maintain its incredibly overrated and just not worth the effort.