Like the fantasy always involves “Okay so I pay off my debts and use the money to make sure Luna and I are no longer long distance and then I just start giving other partners and friends money to pay off their debts and helping random people with their gofundmes and give to every mutual aid request I see on my feed” and society is like “no, you need to invest that” but as far as I’m concerned I am investing it because someone being less stressed and happier is going to make their lives better and maybe that will also make other people’s lives better and I’d rather invest in joy than stocks because one is real and one is rich people circlejerking.