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literalHam
@literalHam

honestly the idea that a 22-year-old would say to another human person that they are an "elder" speaks volumes about the insecurity of what it is like being 22, exactly the reason 22 year olds shouldn't be filling that role of elder.

i wonder if the thing they meant was that they are a mentor to trans teens? like perhaps they werent even thinking about us trans ppl over 30 bc all the trans ppl they know are between 16 and 20?


exerian
@exerian

i wonder if this was informed by mormon nonsense.
in the lds faith "men" become "elders" at 18.


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in reply to @literalHam's post:

Awhile back ran into someone who expressed surprise that a trans woman could be in her 40s, because she mainly knows trans women between 13 and, like. 22

Which, I guess if you’re young I get, but the idea of a 13 year old being able to be openly trans blows my mind as someone who came out way before that was anywhere near normal