Unless you’re someone I know personally, a friend, any kink stuff I write about or draw is not and will never be an open invitation to insert yourself into kink with me. This is my personal blog, not a service for the masses. If I do not know you- or hell, if we’re nothing more than acquaintances at best, you do not pass the lofty bar of trust I’ve set, so please don’t engage with me in that manner.
If it becomes egregious, I’ll just block you.
Following my account does not make us friends. Leaving comments saying “you want to be my friend” does not make us friends. Following me on more than one social media site does not make us friends. If you have to wonder “golly, is Fey my friend?” we are probably not friends, and certainly not close enough for you to treat me as a participant in your kinks.
Sorry to be blunt about this, but I have to be. I’ve been online and visible long enough to have had multiple incidents where strangers develop really goddamn unhealthy parasocial fixations on me, and that dog don’t fucking hunt.