hi I'm kat (you can also call me sorano or fluffy)!! I'm a wildcat furry in my mid-30s just vibing. "cat" is both my gender and my way of life; I accept gentle head scritches
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日本語でOKだけど、まだ僕は初級で話していてよなぁww
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unstoppable force (my innate desire to support my loved ones) vs immovable object (my trauma of ex-partners offloading their emotional labor onto me)
I gathered up the courage to just come right out and talk through my trauma with my partners, and it went very well ; ; I'm still getting used to the idea of being able to trust loved ones with the details of my traumatic experiences, but I'm really grateful to have partners who are being as patient as possible with me and listening carefully
unstoppable force (my innate desire to support my loved ones) vs immovable object (my trauma of ex-partners offloading their emotional labor onto me)
and I can already tell this is exactly what I want to be doing with my life right now. I'm so excited to help the homeless animals in my community; I can't wait to get right into it and start my training. I have no idea if they hire from volunteers or if I really want to make a career out of it eventually, but I think it's something I may consider over the next 6+ months that I'll be volunteering.
the great thing about DBT is that it's helped me learn how to channel my pre-event restlessness into productivity. I could sit on the couch and experience a growing dread for my upcoming therapy appointment, or I could get up and do some cleaning & organization for an hour or two. guess which one I usually default to these days!
