unstoppable force (my innate desire to support my loved ones) vs immovable object (my trauma of ex-partners offloading their emotional labor onto me)

hi I'm kat (you can also call me sorano or fluffy)!! I'm a wildcat furry in my mid-30s just vibing. "cat" is both my gender and my way of life; I accept gentle head scritches
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unstoppable force (my innate desire to support my loved ones) vs immovable object (my trauma of ex-partners offloading their emotional labor onto me)
and I can already tell this is exactly what I want to be doing with my life right now. I'm so excited to help the homeless animals in my community; I can't wait to get right into it and start my training. I have no idea if they hire from volunteers or if I really want to make a career out of it eventually, but I think it's something I may consider over the next 6+ months that I'll be volunteering.
the great thing about DBT is that it's helped me learn how to channel my pre-event restlessness into productivity. I could sit on the couch and experience a growing dread for my upcoming therapy appointment, or I could get up and do some cleaning & organization for an hour or two. guess which one I usually default to these days!