put up a very reasonable boundary (refusing to do unsafe sleepy driving) and enforced it, and now folks are mad at me for enforcing my boundary. saying it's "part of a larger pattern." idk but "a larger pattern" of enforcing my extremely reasonable personal boundaries sounds pretty fucking epic and based to me; that is the hill I will be dying on today I guess
- they/them (he/him OK)
hi I'm kat (you can also call me sorano or fluffy)!! I'm a wildcat furry in my mid-30s just vibing. "cat" is both my gender and my way of life; I accept gentle head scritches
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日本語でOKだけど、まだ僕は初級で話していてよなぁww
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also:
it's very exciting that I get to start taking the next steps of my name change (i.e. updating my name in all the important national/federal infrastructure), but I gotta say: not too hype about the next steps being SSA and DMV, two of the most undersupported institutions in the entire nation
MY FINAL NAME CHANGE DECREE CAME IN THE MAIL TODAY
I'M NOW LEGALLY RECOGNIZED IN THE STATE OF COLORADO AS MY CHOSEN NAME, AND SOON IT'LL BE FEDERAL
I love to disclose my transness on medical intake paperwork and demand respect for it; I like it much better this way compared to when everybody looks confused about a person named "Kat" (or worse, my extremely feminine deadname) showing up with a beard. like yes hello, I AM Trans of Gender, you WILL see me as such and you WILL NOT question me further