froey

I'll miss you cohost. 2022-2024.

living in the bible belt, early 30s
non-binary ⚧🏳️‍⚧️ transfemme
lesbian + ace
neurodivergent
indie visual novel dev + writer
I watch mostly anime
I also read a lot of gay books
budget audiophile
data hoarder
general geek
@fireyfennec


Website (powered by Bear)
froey.bearblog.dev/
twitter (abandoned and locked.)
twitter.com/LadyFroey

ExplodedMilkPorn
@ExplodedMilkPorn

ive donated some money to cohost through cohost plus to keep this place afloat but im also a realist. no social media platform is profitable not twitter, not youtube, not tumblr, not cohost. even with invasive amounnts of ads and clickbait and data collection. discord is losing money thats why they keep revamping the site for investors and shilling out for a bunch of microtransactions and tried to graft themselves onto web3.0. its why kickstarter has begun trying to shift into web3.0 or hell why facebook turned into meta. the internet is a metaphorical post-scarcity utopia and that makes it a nightmare for social media companies. i’m sorry little gay bug app enjoyers, but if you can’t find an investor to lose thousands of dollars into this website, cohost is fucked in the long term.

the whole thing makes me insanely curious though, it sort of feels like web2.0 is facing the same dot com bubble that burst in the 90s. we built our entire internet around these messiah companies, and instead of cyberpunk dystopia, it feels like they’re all crumbling under their own weight desperately trying to find the next sucker to buy their debt back. the push to monetize EVERYTHING with web3.0 has failed spectacularly and now techghouls are scrambling to AI as if it will save them and cut the massive costs of labour and keeping systems running; as if running AI backends doesnt also cost a shit ton. and while this is scary for queer identities to not have an easy place to congregate, its not like we even super have that now. in the ideal scenario, the one i think people can push towards if we start getting our acts together is a sort of de-emphasizing of the internet and discourse, and a re-emphasizing of personal expression and connection through a revitalization of web1.0 as a sort of web1.5. if theres a lesson to be taken from this other than the internet age being the height of human folly.


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in reply to @ExplodedMilkPorn's post:

Safe to say why I hate most of the modern Internet. I've been agreeing with a lot of rhetoric that cohost is one of the few exceptions of being an excellent social media platform. But sites like this usually rely on either an investor, or a big company buying it up to keep it alive. A part of me hopes crowdfunding keeps it around. :eggbug-pleading:

hope for the best, plan for the worst is what my queer mom always tells me, and while i think this crowdfunding push could maybe save it past march, and i cant realistically see it stick around past at most june without a massive fucking overall of the monetization or bandwidth of the site. i saw a post that the donation push feels a lot like dashcon; and while its a bit of a cruel comparison its not entirely unfounded imo. we need X amount of money now!!!! if we dont the site will be shut down forever!!! while the numbers are heavily obscured (implying they are worse then they are letting on). it is a good pitch to get the emotional response going, but like what are we gonna do after the push yknow? not everyone who bought a subscription this time is going to next time, nor will the traffic be the same right after another transmisogynist melt down. if it does workout, its because of a cocktail that’s impossible to recreate long term

Honestly, sounds about right. Dashcon comparison is harsh, but it costs a lot of money to run a site like this. A lot of people have low wages + cost of living is too high for some of us to put into a website.

I was going to rely on cohost to market and get word out for my next project alongside twitter and and bluesky as my work gets most attention here, but I may have to focus my attention onto other places now.

Gotta plan ahead, ya know?